Do not settle: You deserve so much more

Do not settle: You deserve so much more

I was driving to work a few days ago and I was feeling really uncomfortable within. I had been entertaining text messages from someone I work with and although the test messages weren't bad, they were full of flattery. This person has also been asking me to hang out, instead of saying no and being [...]

Advertisements

True Life: I am undateable

True Life: I am undateable

Truth time! Have you all heard of "RED FLAGS?" If not, "red flags" are warning signs; behaviors that you should literally RUN AWAY from when you notice them in someone you are dating. "Red flags" aren't minor flaws about a person, like the person who chews too loudly and snort when they laugh. No. "Red [...]

How to stop waiting for someone to make you happy

How to stop waiting for someone to make you happy

I realized after my last relationship that I was one of those people that sit around waiting for someone to make them happy. I didn't like discovering this truth about myself. Although we came into this world alone, we were also created for relationships, but not to be codependent on people. For me, finding happiness [...]

for the person who feels too much

for the person who feels too much

When something would happen that I absolutely couldn't bear, I would go on google searching for articles like these: how to feel less, how to be less sensitive, how to not take things too personal, how to not wear your heart on your sleeves, and so on. Many articles with those titles would come up and I [...]

My heart is broken and it’s NOT my fault

My heart is broken and it’s NOT my fault

About us I bought him his first luxury watch, it was a movado watch. He didn’t ask me to buy it. He wasn’t that kind of person to just ask something of me that he knew I couldn’t provide. He was sensible that way. But he wanted that watch. So bad. We were both struggling [...]