journal

Invade my privacy

1. Did you wake up cranky?Do I ever wake up not cranky?  I am one of those annoying people who can’t be pleasant to other humans until I have caffeine flowing through my blood stream.  2. Would you date an 18-year-old at you’r current age?No please3. Do you prefer to be friends with girls or boys?When […]

Read more
simple living

Life Lately | November 2018

Hello November!! Life  Lately… has been about not finishing things and not being disciplined. So lets talk about how blogtober was a total fail. I’ve never completed a blogtober since I started doing it about 3 years ago. One thing I’ve learned about myself in the last 2 years or so is that I lack […]

Read more
journal

I was ghosted

I got ghosted by a “friend.” actually no air quotes because I thought this person was a friend. I just want to start off by saying if someone doesn’t want to be in your life, you have to let them go. Life is hard enough dealing family and partners, friendships are the only voluntary relationship where […]

Read more
journal

29 years, 29 lessons

Whether or not you have make up on your face, wash your face before you sleep. The dirt from the day will manifest in forms of pimples in the morning. Trust me Spend money on skin care Sometimes what you deserve isn’t what you want. Let me explain, you deserve a healthy relationship but the […]

Read more
journal

True Life: I Have Birthday Anxiety

Lets talk about how strange I am. Um, actually I really hope I am not the only one. If you feel the same, please let me know I am not the only who suffers from serious anxiety around their birthday. No, it isn’t about me aging. Around my birthday, I get anxious about who is […]

Read more
journal

I am most confident during my period

I didn’t know what to write about today so I went on good ole pinterest to look up some writing prompts. I found one that asked, what makes you the most confident? It dawned me on that I am most confident during my menstrual cycle. One definition of confidence is: a feeling of self-assurance arising from […]

Read more
simple living

A day in my life

I purposely left my phone in the kitchen the night before so I can sleep in properly. When I opened my eyes it was around 10:30 am. Praise hands anyone?! I did morning things and did a Starbucks run. Yes Starbucks takes all my money and I don’t even feel bad because I have very […]

Read more
journal

I Don’t Love Myself

Listen, I get the whole self love thing. But for me whether or not I love myself isn’t important. Especially the days when I can’t conjure enough self love. Then what? Create a bath and light a candle? Listen to my sick spotify playlist? For me it’s deeper than that. Although I live for candles. My need to be loved is greater than what I can give myself or what atmosphere I can create for myself.

Read more