faith, lifestyle

Advent playlist

In my last post, I told you that I will be observing advent this year and is it possible to do anything without a playlist? the answer is NO. I created this wonderful playlist on spotify you can check out. I think it is decent summary of what the season mean, so enjoy. Let me […]

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journal

Invade my privacy

1. Did you wake up cranky? Do I ever wake up not cranky?  I am one of those annoying people who can’t be pleasant to other humans until I have caffeine flowing through my blood stream.   2. Would you date an 18-year-old at you’r current age? No please 3. Do you prefer to be friends […]

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simple living

My day at the zoo

I have been to the zoo several times but I was really emotional today. I was just thinking about how foreign the place might be for the animals especially the apes and the elephants- elephants have been found to have emotions. I really was about to cry, but I thugged it out. I was telling my friend, I wonder if the animals knew what was going on, like whether they knew if they were exhibits, and that they weren’t home. hmmm. but

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I was ghosted

I got ghosted by a “friend.” actually no air quotes because I thought this person was a friend. I just want to start off by saying if someone doesn’t want to be in your life, you have to let them go. Life is hard enough dealing family and partners, friendships are the only voluntary relationship where […]

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29 years, 29 lessons

Whether or not you have make up on your face, wash your face before you sleep. The dirt from the day will manifest in forms of pimples in the morning. Trust me Spend money on skin care Sometimes what you deserve isn’t what you want. Let me explain, you deserve a healthy relationship but the […]

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I am most confident during my period

I didn’t know what to write about today so I went on good ole pinterest to look up some writing prompts. I found one that asked, what makes you the most confident? It dawned me on that I am most confident during my menstrual cycle. One definition of confidence is: a feeling of self-assurance arising from […]

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simple living

Taking Stock | October 2018

Making : the sickest fall playlist ever. I think I will share it maybe Sunday or Monday? we’ll see Cooking : I didn’t cook anything today. I just had let overs Drinking : just water. Also, I’ve gotten hip to this ginger beer thing, ya know?! Reading: from Twinkle with Love by Sandhya Menon. I did a […]

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true life

True Life: I come with baggage

cue in Bag Lady by Erykah Badu. bag lady, you gon hurt your bag dragging all them bags like that. I guess nobody ever told you,all you must hold to, is you, is you,is you…one day, all them bags gon get in your way, so, PACK LIGHT Hi friends, I am here to tell you […]

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simple living

Things that make me happy

Thank God it is Friday! Who am I? I always thought saying TGIF was so obnoxious but here I am saying it. BUT it is a new day and I am a new creation. Can I get an amen?  haha, but in all seriousness, I am just wired this way. (more about my personality type […]

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