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I Don’t Love Myself

Listen, I get the whole self love thing. But for me whether or not I love myself isn’t important. Especially the days when I can’t conjure enough self love. Then what? Create a bath and light a candle? Listen to my sick spotify playlist? For me it’s deeper than that. Although I live for candles. My need to be loved is greater than what I can give myself or what atmosphere I can create for myself.

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Dealing with Sexual Desires as a Single Woman

It is not often that I talk about anything sex related with anyone let alone with people I do not know. So bare with me as I navigate through this topic and try to be as clear and honest as possible. But I’ve been meaning to write this post for a while now I just […]

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God as

God as PROVIDER

Hi friends, its ME!! I am starting a new series called “God as…” basically sharing what God has been for me or is for me. I wrote a post a few month ago about God as Father, you can read that HERE. I hope you enjoy these series.  Earlier this year I moved out of […]

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God has forgotten to write my love story

Hi friends, Lately, I’ve been feeling like God has forgotten to write my love story. I see people, Christians and non alike testifying about how God perfectly wrote their love story and just how happy they are and I am left feeling like, WHAT ABOUT ME? I’m waiting patiently. I’m avoiding unnecessary and temporary pleasures, […]

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musings

5 Questions Before Your Next Relationship

Hi friends, With all the #relationship goals going on, I think most of us single people who desire relationship can rush into something we really aren’t ready for and it will definitely ruin us it terms of our time and emotions. Below I’ve listed some questions I think you need to ask yourself before your […]

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Day 3: What is your relationship status

and how do you feel about it Welcome to day 3 of my writing challenge. I almost didn’t make it today, but lets get on with it. The writing prompt is, what is your relationship status and how do you feel about it? My relationship status is, SINGLE AF There are days where I feel […]

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You love who you love?

Am I the only who can’t seem to grasp the concept of loving someone and being in love with someone? When it is explained to me, I get it, but when I am alone and I think about it, it just doesn’t make sense. What is even more troublesome to me is when someone say […]

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faith

For the Single Person on Valentine’s Day

I was wrestling with writing about this topic because I am not sure what the purpose of it would be for you all and I don’t really think I am the person to write about this, at this time. But it HAS been on my heart to write about singleness and I think the day […]

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lifestyle

January 2018 wrap up+Life Lately

this is a long one. I’m having one of those sleepless nights and I figured why not write my last post for January 2018. I really wasn’t planning on writing this because I genuinely do not know where January went. People keep complaining about how long January has been and I’m saying to myself, “I […]

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