journal

I was ghosted

I got ghosted by a “friend.” actually no air quotes because I thought this person was a friend. I just want to start off by saying if someone doesn’t want to be in your life, you have to let them go. Life is hard enough dealing family and partners, friendships are the only voluntary relationship where […]

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journal

True Life: I Have Birthday Anxiety

Lets talk about how strange I am. Um, actually I really hope I am not the only one. If you feel the same, please let me know I am not the only who suffers from serious anxiety around their birthday. No, it isn’t about me aging. Around my birthday, I get anxious about who is […]

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simple living

are you living your best life?

A few weeks ago I came to the realization that I do not like traveling. I like being in new places but I do not like traveling. I hate searching for tickets. I hate buying tickets. I hate packing. I usually do not sleep well when I travel. I hate saying goodbye to people. I […]

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lifestyle

1:Blogtober: October skies

 This year, I am partaking in Blogtober, meaning I will be blogging everyday in October. I will just be rambling for the most part unless something speaks to my heart and I feel inclined to write about it. I am not doing this because my life is so interesting and I have so much to […]

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musings

“For to be free…

is not merely to cast off one’s chains, but to live in a way that respects and enhances the freedom of others.” -Nelson Mandela Glorious Monday, (only because it is my birthday!!) I read a lot of blogs and advice books and articles and listen to motivational speakers, etc…I have noticed something or an advice […]

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