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I was ghosted

I got ghosted by a “friend.”¬†actually no air quotes because I thought this person was a friend. I just want to start off by saying if someone doesn’t want to be in your life, you have to let them go. Life is hard enough dealing family and partners, friendships are the only voluntary relationship where […]

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True Life: I come with baggage

cue in Bag Lady by Erykah Badu. bag lady, you gon hurt your bag dragging all them bags like that. I guess nobody ever told you,all you must hold to, is you, is you,is you…one day, all them bags gon get in your way, so, PACK LIGHT Hi friends, I am here to tell you […]

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Dealing with Sexual Desires as a Single Woman

It is not often that I talk about anything sex related with anyone let alone with people I do not know. So bare with me as I navigate through this topic and try to be as clear and honest as possible. But I’ve been meaning to write this post for a while now I just […]

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God has forgotten to write my love story

Hi friends, Lately, I’ve been feeling like God has forgotten to write my love story. I see people, Christians and non alike testifying about how God perfectly wrote their love story and just how happy they are and I am left feeling like, WHAT ABOUT ME? I’m waiting patiently. I’m avoiding unnecessary and temporary pleasures, […]

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5 Questions Before Your Next Relationship

Hi friends, With all the #relationship goals going on, I think most of us single people who desire relationship can rush into something we really aren’t ready for and it will definitely ruin us it terms of our time and emotions. Below I’ve listed some questions I think you need to ask yourself before your […]

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Day 3: What is your relationship status

and how do you feel about it Welcome to day 3 of my writing challenge. I almost didn’t make it today, but lets get on with it. The writing prompt is, what is your relationship status and how do you feel about it? My relationship status is, SINGLE AF There are days where I feel […]

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You love who you love?

Am I the only who can’t seem to grasp the concept of loving someone and being in love with someone? When it is explained to me, I get it, but when I am alone and I think about it, it just doesn’t make sense. What is even more troublesome to me is when someone say […]

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True Life: I am not enough

True life, everyone that has told me they loved me, left. forget the former things, do not dwell on the past… I am¬† thinking about the people that have professed their love for me who are no where to be found. I am thinking about how they loved me so much but just not enough. […]

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