simple living

My first time at a spa

A few weeks ago my dear friend took me to spa for the very first time and I am here to report that I had a really good time. I never understood the hype over spas. I just cannot wrap my head around the idea of being pampered. You know how people ask “why?” when […]

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Self-worth and being busy

I walked into my room and I said to myself, “today was a good day.” Then I started listing all things I got done and I felt really really good. It reminded me of when I was in undergrad when I would  pull all nighters and brag about my lack of sleep. I would have […]

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How to stop waiting for someone to make you happy

I realized after my last relationship that I was one of those people that sit around waiting for someone to make them happy. I didn’t like discovering this truth about myself. Although we came into this world alone, we were also created for relationships, but not to be codependent on people. For me, finding happiness […]

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Showing up in your life

I remember saying to one of my friends, “If you tell me you will be there, then I will for sure show up.” I wanted to go for a run, okay let me stop lying, I wanted to go for a jog, actually a walk, right? But I knew I wouldn’t commit to it unless […]

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